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常犯小人的必讀...
「小人」處處有,有些人的存在總令你惱怒,總在公司 說三道四,謠言四起...
其實,不管你喜不喜歡,小人到哪都有,就算換公司、換環境,還是會有另外一批出現,
以下是 6 個 職場高手傳授的好方法,你有效的讓小人退散...
助你 夜夜好眠!
真的有這麼神奇嗎?
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對付「小人」的 6 個經典方法:
1. 對小人勤打招呼,少說話;
2. 不主動來往,但不拒絕來往;不深交,但不絕交。
3. 給予好處,但不能占小人便宜。
4. 不要進小人圈子,也不讓小人深入自己的領域和心靈。
5. 不幫忙,不阻攔,不規勸,不參與,不討論,任其自生自滅。
6. 不要在意小人在背後怎麼看你說你,這些言語改變不了事實。
俗話說的好,道人是非者,便是是非人,小人多行不義,遲早會被大家認識到他的真面目...
這裡教大家幾招讓你慧眼識人讓小人無法興風作浪!
每個地方都有小人,通常,小人做人處事不太厚道,常以不良手段達成目的。
與小人相處,稍不謹慎,會吃大虧;學會分辨小人,非常重要。
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他們言行有以下特色:
1、喜歡造謠生事:通常是另有陰謀目的,並不單純以此為樂;
有時為了升遷,襯托自己優秀,也不惜醜化對手。
他們唯恐天下不亂,慣用〝聽說〞造句,歪曲事實,無中生有。
2、喜歡挑撥離間:分化同事感情,製造紛爭和事端,鷸蚌相爭,結果漁翁得利。
他們口才好,善於撇清責任;事後扮演和事佬,雙面間諜,閩語所謂〝雙面刀鬼〞。
3、喜歡奉承:〝讚美鼓勵〞和〝奉承拍馬〞不同,後者舌燦蓮花有心機,熱情又嘴巴甜,讓人暈陶陶而迷失方向。
他們更刻意親近上司,常伺機打小報告,備受寵愛。
4、喜歡陽奉陰違:工作方面,言行不一,善於表面功夫,也善於俟機邀功搶功。
待人方面,他們是表里不一兩面人,有時面前誇你套出你的秘密,背後就損你出賣你。
5、喜歡見風轉舵:誰得勢就依附誰,誰失勢就捨棄誰,所謂西瓜偎大邊。
他們利用別人權勢以提升自己地位,沒有利用價值的人,他們不會想親近,頂多虛以委蛇。
6、踏著別人鮮血前進,踩著別人肩頭攀高:你種樹,他乘涼;利用你替他們開路,成功時,不會報答你;
甚至翻臉無情抹煞你;他們占人便宜視為當然,怎會感激?
7、喜歡落井下石:只要有人或跌倒或失敗,他們會追上來再補一腳;
例如,四處渲染那人〝罪有應得〞云云。
他們也是事後諸葛,常說一些幸災樂禍的風涼話。
8、喜歡找替死鬼:明明是自己言行有過錯,卻死不承認,昧著良心硬拗瞎掰,也要找一個冤大頭(軟柿子)來背黑鍋。
他們口才犀利又敢發誓,很能誤導大家以訛傳訛,日久則眾口鑠金,積非成是。
有時〝真相〞就此石沉大海,永遠被扭屈蒙蔽了。
事實上,小人的特色不只這些,凡是藐視法律,鄙棄道理,刻薄寡情,不遵循倫常道德,
唯利是圖,損人利己,容易鬼迷心竅的人,通常都帶有小人的性格。
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古人說〝畫虎畫皮難畫骨,知人知面不知心〞
又說〝逢人且說三分話,不可全拋一片心〞
又說〝害人之心不可有,防人之心不可無〞
又說〝人不可貌相,海不可斗量〞
又說〝明槍易躲,暗箭難防〞都是教導子弟看清社會,保護自己。
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當你看出誰是小人之後,要懂得如何與小人相處?簡單的說:
1、不要得罪小人:千萬不要因為正義感而獨自公開揭發他,小人從不認為自己奸詐不厚道,
他們敏感度高,眼銳如鷹,舌利如劍……你不一定是他對手。
2、敬而遠之,和他們保持距離:保持平淡的表面關係,千萬不要親密如友,
因為小人蜜腹劍,翻臉無情,讓你措手不及,吃不完兜著走……
3、說話謹慎,客套寒暄即可:如果你批評或談別人隱私,絕對變成他們興風作浪的把柄,或是做為日後報復你的籌碼;
如果他們批評或談別人隱私,你要立刻中止,一句都不要聽,因為無論如何,
他們絕對會嫁禍給你,尤其是他們撥電話寒暄聊天,常常順便幫你錄音喔!
你不要懷疑~他們這樣快樂嗎?幹嘛那麼累?這就是小人心態!
4、不要有利益瓜葛:他們善於交際搞小圈圈,看起來很熱鬧很多好處,但是你千萬不要靠他們獲得利益,
因為,他們必定要求加倍回報,你肯定因小失大,得不償失。
5、吃些小虧無妨:因為你不但很難討回公道,反而結下更大的仇恨;
他們褊狹陰狠,跟你沒完沒了,你更累;
古人說:忍一時風平浪靜;退一步海闊天空。
你要當作修行功課,使你成長,贏得更多尊敬。
何況,公道在人心~誰敢和小人做朋友呢。
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因此...
美好人生,別花費任何一秒負面情緒在小人身上~
文章來源:www.sharetify.com
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